About Me

I wanted to give whomever is reading a better idea of who's writing this blog...

Any reader can feel free to email me questions about myself, my perspective, my blog...anything goes really. Just be respectful and open minded in asking and receiving answers.

Find me at saturniarising@aol.com

About me (a more in depth look)

Is your name actually 'Kitten'?

No. It's a nickname.

How old are you?

23

Where are you?

I currently reside in NY, USA.

What do you do?

At the moment, I freelance a lot of things. Animal care, house sitting, real estate photography, interning, fundraising for non-profits, IT maintenance, managing a barn and trying to get into professional school.

Were you always into kink, BDSM, D/s? When did your interest start?

Well, no, there was a time when I was completely unaware of what sex was. I was six.

Truthfully my introduction into kink came through a rather interesting roundabout; it occurred at about 13 years of age. I understood at that time that it was considered 'deviant' sexual behavior, but like it or not, it struck a chord. At 14, I learned that the idea of being a sexual submissive was a major turn on for me...this became very hard to reconcile coming from a family in which women are very type A, ambitious, and strong. At that time I didn't realize that there was a difference between submission and subservience (in a negative connotation). I spent my time socializing with guys that had strong, dominant personalities, but I never allowed myself to explore any further than that, believing I was deviant, weird and sincerely fucked up.

When I left for college, I met someone that I've been dating for five years. I felt safe enough to keep researching my interests in BDSM and submission and with him, I felt loved enough to explore. He bent over backwards to try, however, being a Midwestern boy, he's vanilla to the core. I realized through my exploration with him that there was a beast I needed to feed sexually...I couldn't get enough. Our relationship is coming to a close now and I have found someone else to feed those desires without having to fear what it is I want.

Are you collared? Can I Dom you/play with you?

I am not collared.

However, out of respect for the individual currently topping me, I will not allow any other man to dominate me or play with me without his approval. This is both for safety and respect of the fact that although I am not his collared submissive, I will defer to him.

What are you into?

You can find my list of fetish interests and hard limits on the 'Fetishes' page.

Are you poly? Are you bisexual? Will you let women dominate you?

I am not polyamorous, it's a personal choice and it's just not for me.

I'll call myself heteroflexible. I have been with women sexually, I enjoy it, but I would not end up in a long term relationship with a woman.

And for the most part no, I will not let a woman dominate me. Dommes don't turn me on. If it's a request from my Dom, then of course, but other than that I have no real interest in letting a woman top me for sex or pain or service.

Do you blog anywhere else?

Yes, I have a reblog Tumblr of erotic (mostly) images...things that I find attractive, arousing and whatnot. This is an 18+, NSFW blog.

www.walkingthewirebetween.tumblr.com

My softer, erotica-free blog can be found at www.lunafarmgirl.tumblr.com